I consider myself to be a pretty flexible feminist. And Matt (the fianceeee) is a feminist too. So I really don’t think about our binary gender chores that much. But there are certain things that surprise me.
Namely – signing Matt’s name on a card. I tried doing it today and felt generations of resentment pouring out of my pen. Why can’t men write their own cards!!! Ever!
I would rather sign Matt’s name on a card than wash dishes, and, to his credit, he is always washing the dishes, and I am hardly ever sending cards. But it’s the PRINCIPLE of the thing….also, I love that I have deodorant at my desk.